When an expectant woman is told that she is going to give birth to triplets, she gets excited and overjoyed with the information. This is exactly what happened to Chloe Dunstan when she was 28 weeks pregnant. But unluckily, the joy turned out to pain, as the doctors obligated her to accept a difficult decision.
The doctors told her that of the three unborn babies, two of them that were boys were in a perfect status, while the third one, who happened to be a girl had fewer chances of surviving unless she did a premature birth to see if they can struggle to save her.
The doctors advised her to just leave the unborn girl to die and save the two boys, of which was a sure solution, But Chloe was hesitant to agree to that impossible decision. She clearly knew the pain that will overcome her once she did so. Whichever the case, a solution had to be found quickly!
After a long period of meditation, she managed to decide on a solution that was termed to be brave. Surely this was a decision that would be felt in her family forever.
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Chloe and her husband Rohan already have three beautiful boys, but they really wanted to have a girl.
“When they told us that what was supposed to be our ‘fourth and final’ baby is actually our fourth, fifth and sixth. I’m still so completely shocked to be honest. I’m scared, excited, overwhelmed, overjoyed and every other emotion known to man.”
Doctors began to tell Chloe that the little girl inside of her would most likely die if they didn’t operate. But surgically removing all of the babies could actually risk the two healthy boys. Chloe was forced to make the choice, should she give her little girl a chance at life and put her brothers at risk too, or should she let the boys come out strong and healthy with no chance for her daughter?
The doctors told her the risks, but she kept up her faith. “At the time I could barely listen to any of that.. My mind was on a one way track of ‘I want ALL of my babies’, I did briefly consider the alternative, I did a lot of research and tried to get a feel for what they were in for.. I knew it would be tough but I just couldn’t give up on her.. I knew she was strong because she made it all the way to 28 weeks, when she was barely getting any nutrients in the womb.”
“I have felt so much guilt over my decision to deliver, especially early on when all three babies were going through so much in hospital and Pearl was dropping below her birthweight of 690g (1lb8oz), she was on a ventilator, fighting off infections, barely holding on. Sometimes I felt like I made the wrong decision, sometimes I felt like if I had chosen the other option, none of them would be suffering. And it was hard to admit that and deal with those feelings.”
“My three babies, they all made it, and not only that but they’re all very healthy as far as we can tell. I guess I just wanted to say that I’m so very happy and grateful for how everything has worked out. I think back to that choice I was given and my heart aches when I think about the alternative. I couldn’t imagine life without her and I’m so proud of all three of them. I can’t wait to watch them grow.”